When Someone You Love Begins to Change
Whether someone you love is living at home, receiving care or recovering from injury in hospital, or residing in retirement or long-term care, changes in memory, communication, behaviour, or everyday abilities can bring uncertainty. You may find yourself wondering what's happening and how best to respond.
At From The Heart Supportive Care, we explore these changes to help you better understand your person, the abilities they retain, and what may be making those abilities more difficult for them to access.
Through individualized Restorative Engagement and Functional Support, we work alongside individuals, their families, and the broader care team to support regulation, meaningful participation, and access to remaining abilities.
Because cognitive change doesn't change who someone is- and understanding the person is where meaningful support begins.
The Restorative Function Cycle
Regulation and function are interconnected.
When a person feels safer, calmer and better regulated, there may be greater opportunity to participate in daily life and care and to access abilities they continue to possess.
Purposeful participation provides opportunities to draw upon physical, cognitive, emotional, social and sensory abilities. When those abilities can be accessed and used, function is supported — which can, in turn, contribute to continued regulation and participation.
The goal is not simply participation. It is participation with purpose — supporting the person's ability to access and use the function that remains available to them.
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When The Cycle Is Disrupted
Illness, pain, fatigue, delirium, cognitive or functional change, emotional distress, environmental stress and other contributing factors can interfere with regulation. When this occurs, a person's ability to communicate, participate and access existing abilities may also be affected.
Responsive behaviour expressions may emerge as the person communicates distress, discomfort, an unmet need or difficulty coping with what is happening around them.
The response is not simply to manage the behaviour.
Restorative Functional Support looks at what may have changed, what may be contributing, and what can help the person regulate again.
The cycle does not always remain intact.
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The Living PictureTM Approach
A behavior is a snap shot. The person is a Living Picture TM
Living Picture™ is the three-part restorative framework developed by From The Heart Supportive Care to guide individualized support for people experiencing cognitive or functional change, responsive behaviour expressions, delirium and complex aging.
The framework looks beyond a single behaviour expression, refusal, episode of distress or functional difficulty to develop a more complete understanding of the person — their regulated baseline, what may be affecting their ability to regulate and participate, and the abilities that remain accessible when the conditions support success.
By looking at the whole picture, Living Picture™ connects regulation, responsive behaviour, participation and function, helping identify what may be interfering with success and what supports the person in accessing and using the abilities they continue to possess.
Supporting the Person
-and the People Providing Their Care
Restorative Functional Support
Cognitive or functional change, responsive behaviour expressions, delirium and complex aging can affect much more than memory. They can influence how a person communicates, responds to care, moves through their day, manages transitions and accesses abilities they may still possess.
Restorative Functional Support provides dedicated one-to-one time to observe, understand and support the person across these changing circumstances.
Through individualized restorative engagement, support focuses on creating the conditions that help the person regulate, participate and use the abilities that remain accessible to them.
This may include support during personal care and daily routines, transitions, movement and functional participation, cognitive and sensory engagement, communication, social connection and periods of increased distress or dysregulation.
Observation is also an important part of our work. Changes in behaviour or function may provide valuable information about pain, illness, fatigue, overstimulation, environmental stress, delirium or other factors affecting the person's ability to cope and participate. Patterns, responses and successful strategies can be documented and communicated to families and the care team.
This work does not replace the role of existing healthcare professionals or behavioural supports. It adds something that busy care environments do not always have enough of — time, continuity and individualized observation.
By spending consistent one-to-one time with the person, Restorative Functional Support can help build a fuller picture of what has changed, what may be contributing to dysregulation or reduced participation, what continues to work, and what helps an individual successfully access and use their existing abilities.
What Families Are Saying
"Lynda's caring heart, compassion, support and care giving skills have been a blessing in our lives. We are so thankful for all she does for our family."
Tracey
"My Sisters and I (and our late Father, too) thank Lynda from the bottom of our hearts, for her wonderful affection and care of our Dad. From home to long term care, we would have been lost without her. We are so glad we found her when we did."
Lana
"Our family is deeply grateful for the dedication and compassion Lynda provides our Father. Her patience and understanding make a world of difference for him, and us- and we see how much happier and less stressed Dad is as a result. She always goes above and beyond, and we see her dedication in endless ways. With her consistent thoughtful approach to care over the phases of life ( from early in his home, to more advanced memory and restorative care in assisted living), Lynda feels like part of the family and has balanced this with professionalism very naturally. Her experience and empathetic nature is so very much appreciated."
Sara
“Lynda was referred to us through Ontario Health at Home to provide support for my wife. For nearly two years, my wife had shown very little interest in the hobbies and activities she once enjoyed. It was like she just sat in one place and simply existed.....and then Lynda came along.
I don’t know how she does it, but she has an incredible way of connecting with her (my wife). Imagine my surprise when I come home and find the two of them sitting together playing Scrabble, or gardening, or out for a walk.
Seeing my Wife participating and enjoying something again means more to me than I can say.”
George